A guide to how to organise a funeral

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Planning a funeral in London can feel overwhelming, especially during a time of grief. Whether you’re arranging a farewell for a loved one or preparing for the future, understanding your options can help bring clarity and comfort.

At its heart, a funeral is about honouring a life. In London, families often choose between two main approaches: a full-service funeral with ceremony and procession, or a simpler, more private cremation. Both routes can be deeply meaningful, what matters most is that the farewell reflects the person you’re remembering.

The first step is often a conversation. Some families in London arrive with clear wishes, while others need time to explore what feels right. Key things to consider include:

• Tone and style: Would you prefer a traditional funeral, a secular ceremony, or something more personal and story-led?
• Location: London offers many crematoriums, chapels, and community spaces. You might choose a venue close to home or one with special meaning.
• People and roles: Who will lead the ceremony? Will there be readings, music, or symbolic gestures?
• Preparation and farewell: Would you like to spend time with your loved one beforehand, choose their clothing, or include personal items?

At Memento Mori, we offer gentle care and preparation in South East London, including dressing, hair, and personal touches. You can also visit our peaceful Chapel of Rest before the funeral for quiet reflection.

The day of the funeral is about presence, not perfection. Whether you’re surrounded by many or just a few, what matters is that the farewell feels true.

Consider:

• Transport and setting: Will your loved one travel in a hearse? Is the ceremony at a London crematorium or another venue?
• Ceremony details: Who will speak? What music or tributes will be shared?
• Visual and symbolic touches: Flowers, clothing, colours, and gestures can all help express love and meaning.
• Aftercare: What will happen to ashes or memorial items? Will there be a wake or gathering?

We offer a beautifully crafted coffin from Bradnam Joinery, adorned with fresh flowers from Forest of Deptford. Liz, our founder, will meet you at your chosen London address and accompany your loved one to the crematorium, offering support throughout.

At Memento Mori, we offer two distinct funeral packages in London:

1. Guided Farewell Package – £2,950 (plus cremation or burial fees from £795)

A complete funeral service in London, including:

• Personal planning with Liz
• Celebrant-led ceremony
• Handmade coffin and floral tribute
• Transport and professional support
• Ashes returned with care

This is ideal for families seeking a full, story-led funeral with space for ceremony and community.

2. Private Goodbye Cremation Package – £1,595

A simpler, intimate farewell in South East London, including:

• Gentle care and preparation
• Cremation fees fully covered
• Handmade coffin
• Optional memorial led by Liz
• Ashes returned or scattered with care

Both packages are designed to offer clarity, dignity, and emotional support. Whether you choose a full funeral or a private cremation in London, Liz will guide you with compassion and attention to detail.

If you’re organising a funeral in London and need gentle, honest support, we’re here. Whether you’re ready to make arrangements or simply want to talk through your options, just give us a call. At Memento Mori, every story is honoured with care.